10 TIPS ON HOW TO GET THAT GUY

Show the Guy That You Are Vulnerable

Men need to feel needed, yes it may be from the dinosaurs but it does still apply. I do not mean that you have to be weak, give in to whatever he wants, and put up with any way he treats you I am not suggesting that. Many men like strong women, but strong women who put out that they do not need a guy often end up alone. It is fine to be strong but try and temper it with "ok here is a situation where I can be vulnerable". Men have a strong protective instinct, though they may rarely show it.

Let The Guy Think That He Is Doing The Hunting

Men love the thrill of the chase, it is in their genetic makeup, it is definately a male thing. Play a little secretive and hard to get, and men will flock like bees to honey.That means having a sense of your own worth, men hate women who are clingy. They are not props, they hate boosting a womens ego all the time. In fact men want a real balanced person. Make him feel he wants to make the first move and do the chasing. Women learn to manipulate men at a very early age. By the age of five most girls have learnt how to wrap their father around there little finger.

"Let The Guy Think That He Is Mr Right Rather Than Mr Right Now!"

Stroke their egos, they are not a ticket to go out and pay all the time, let them know that you really value them as a person.

Laugh At His Jokes

This is imperative that a man feels he is funny and witty and is an extension of three, they are valued for their sense of humour. Where would we be in life without laughter.

Never Call Him After The First During The Next Week

If a guy is interested in seeing you again, trust me he will call you in the first week. He will do this even if he says he has to go out of town. If you call him, you come across as over-anxious. You appear desperate, and are more likely to scare the guy off. It is OK to ask him out the first time but not the second.

If You Are Dating Online Get A Professional Photo Taken At A Studio

When dating online you have to market yourself to be successful. A professional photographer will know how to get the best shots out of you and make you look your very best.

Don't Go Out With Your Girlfriends

In Large Groups, Some men feel that approaching a women in a large group is intimidating. Go out in smaller groups, and make it easier for an interested guy to approach you.

Approach Him

Be confidant enough to approach him and ask him if he wants to go for a coffee. If you're not sure whether he is gay or not, then approach him anyway.If he gives you the brush-over then you have lost nothing, but you can pat yourself on the back for taking the initiative, most men will be flattered by this.

You Like Him But He Is Ignoring You

Guys are insecure, and they want to feel liked, and popular. Start ignoring him for a while, not rudely, you don't have to make an issue out of it. Just look right through him, and he will start to be piqued. There is no guarantee here he may not take it any further, it may just boost his confidance, but you have not lost anything

Don't Appear To Be Desperate

Desperation is a real turn off for men. It is an indicator that a woman is going to start to get clingy, and that is not good. Appear yourself and show a friendly interest.

Improve Your Sex Life

Does your sex life lack luster and imagination? Need a way to give it a kick start? Try one of the five ideas below guaranteed to inspire passionate play tonight!

Communicate

You'd be surprised to learn how many couples don't talk about what they want, or don't want, in bed. This is one area that can always be improved. Talk about your fantasies together, play a game of truth or dare or take turns telling each other what you'd like to do to the other person.

Read Together

Inspiration comes in many forms, and many times it is from a great book. Get yours going by starting a library of sensual books. Make sure your collection has a variety of topics such as how-to topics, prose and idea books.

Make A To Do Jar

Separately write twenty things you'd like to try. Cut them out and fold them up. Put the forty ideas in a jar. Each week, individually take out a slip of paper. Don't show each other your slips of paper. Before the week is up, secretly plan to do the idea on the paper with your partner. When you're done with the papers, make up new ideas you'd like to try.

Keep A Passion Diary

Go to a bookstore, and pick a journal you both like. Decide on a secret keeping place for the journal that no one else will accidentally discover. Take turns writing your passionate thoughts and desires to each other.

Try Something New

Get a book of positions. Each month sit down with your partner, and pick a position of the month. Spend the month practicing it, and different variations of the position until you find a favorite.

Signs that a woman is Interested

I’ve read all the books that say, “If a woman tilts her head to the side, licks her lips, fondles her hair, and looks over her shoulder at you, there’s a 67% chance that she’s interested in you.”

Here’s what I’ve found:

The main sign signal that I look for now is, ‘Is she acting friendly to me?’

That’s it. Now, of course some women are more forward than others; but overall, if a woman is acting friendly and keeping up an interesting conversation, you’re usually doing pretty well.

The key is to KEEP GOING AND CONTINUE TO THE NEXT STEP ALWAYS.

I have to stop and explain this point.

Most men don’t realize that THEY NEED TO KEEP ADVANCING.

If your conversation is going well, ask for a phone number.

If you’re out for a walk and the conversation seems to be going well, reach over and kiss her.

If you’re at your house watching a movie and start kissing, take her hand and lead her to your bedroom...get the idea?

Keep advancing.
Women like this and expect it. If they’re not comfortable, they’ll let you know. But don’t worry. Just keep going and advance again at the next opportunity.

Don’t push – advance.

THE SECRETS OF PERFECT KISS

Set The Mood

Set the mood by treating her like a queen. Take care of her every need so she can just lay back and let the day's stresses wash away. If it's your first date, just relax, take your time and make the entire date all about her (which means you have to tell her stuff about you too!) Look, she wants to feel like a million dollars, so treat her as though she is.

Pick The Right Situation

Take her out to a restaurant, for a moonlight walk, or cook dinner at home. Whatever the situation, create an ambience that's all about romance. Make sure the music is just right, give her your full attention, and if at all possible use candles! Candles are the secret-weapon of romantic guys everywhere. There isn't anyone who doesn't look mysterious, and glamorous by candlelight.

Sweet, Sweet, Breath And Soft, Soft, Lips

Guys, no one likes fish-breath! Or cigarette-breath come to that. Now wine-breath or chocolate-breath may just be OK, depending on the tastes of your partner, but you know what? To play safe, brush like a dentist! If you can't do that, then always have breath fresheners with you--any brand as long as they are peppermint or spearmint--and don't forget the lip balm.

Learn From The Masters

Too may guys dive straight in and have her pinned against the wall in three seconds flat. Look. She's most likely very tentative so be tentative too! She'll like that a lot. You must have watched the masters at work in those wonderful old classic movies starring Bogart and Cary Grant? It may take an entire 90 minutes to work up to THE kiss, but when it finally happens the sexual tension is just explosive! Well watch those movies again. Take note of the body language; the flashing eyes; the meaningful looks; the brushing of fingertips. What's NOT being said is louder--and way sexier--than any porn movie!

Nuzzle Her Neck And Kiss Her Face

Why do so many guys miss this amazing ace card? Unlike guys (most) women are slow starters. They take a while to warm up, and this is sort of kissing foreplay. Spend some time "investing" in the kiss to come.

Is it Love, Lust or Loneliness

People talk about re-bound relationships as if it’s a dirty word, saying how can it possibly last, when it’s really just a replacement-date to get you over the last one, which went horribly wrong!

Can it be love?

Can a rebound relationship really be love? Yes, sometimes it is love, and in fact some people swear that love at first sight is real, tangible and for life. But it can also be lust or loneliness. Know what, there is absolutely nothing wrong with that.

Revolving Door:

Relate to the revolving door of lovers in and out of your life? Familiar with the term 'Rebound', it's not always a nasty word. Each connection, no matter how fast-and-furious, serves in some way. Learn from it, don’t harbor regrets, and be thankful for the experience.

Love Sick Loneliness:

For some love-sick beings it means trying to fill the void of the past, Mr. or Mrs. Wonderful and the quicker the better. After breaking away from the illusive love you thought was going to last forever, its natural to want to fill that void by falling into the arms of the next charming lover.

Longing for Lust:

The hot and heavy physical act of lust, or even just a lustful feeling can be like an electric jolt replacing the numbness that often follows a breakup. If lets get physical works, it can be positive. But, keep it in perspective. If it’s a physical relationship, be honest with each other, and don’t expect anything else.

Relationship Deja Vu:

The reality for too many people is you fall right back into the arms of someone who is ever so familiar in looks, character or personality of the one you just left. If the reason why the last romantic adventure didn't last the distance hasn’t been resolved, then valuable lessons are still to be learnt. If an attitude change hasn’t taken place, then getting back on the same ole merry-go-round is unlikely to work.

Flawless and Faultless:

A rebound relationship can quickly fall apart if there are unrealistic expectations about how a love-mate is to be, look and act. And when they inevitably fall off the pedestal, disappointment sets in. Then, unfortunately, all too often a pattern of infatuation and resentment follows.

Of course, there's always the exception to these patterns and there are the lovers who do live happily ever after, but it's not without work, which includes nurturing their relationships with love, tenderness, trust and honesty. Don’t be fooled, to love and be loved, means putting focus, energy and attention into you and your love-mate.

Get Your Partner In The Mood

Getting your partner in the mood for sexual romance can sometimes be difficult, especially when your partner is going through a stressful or hectic time. But, that shouldn't stop you from being sexually intimate. Below you'll find ideas geared to helping you find creative ways to initiate lovemaking, no matter what the situation may be.

Present your partner with a coupon book good for various sexual acts like: one hour of pure pleasure from me, oral sex like you've never had before, one fantasy come true, etc. Use your imagination, as well as try to pick things you know you're partner would like.

Write a short erotic story about the two of you. The best way to go about this is to write down a fantasy in story format. Mail it to your partner or leave it somewhere they can find it.

Similar to the above, create "I'd like to do to you" cards. On about 10 - 15 blank index cards, write different sexual things you'd like to do to your partner. Hide them for them to find (make sure kids or other family members won't get them).

Call your partner and talk dirty to him.

Don't give your partner the opportunity to say no. If you're both comfortable with this idea, when they come home or visit you, grab them, blindfold them and tie there hands together with a silk scarf. Make sure while you're making love that you take your time to pleasure them and show your love.

Buy a few books on lovemaking or print out a few articles on lovemaking from the Internet. Leave them in places where you know you're partner will see that you're reading them. Make it clear to them you're going to try some of these tips out on them when you're ready.

Touch can be a powerful sexual arousal technique. During the day touch your partner whenever possible. Do it as if it's something you'd do everyday. When you're sitting next to each other, place your hand on their thigh. When you're standing caress their back or stomach.
Go somewhere just for the sake of making love. For example, a hotel, a secluded area, etc.

Leave a note for your partner telling them you plan on making sweet, passionate love to them tonight so be prepared

Create a romantic interlude like this one: Silence Is Golden: A Sensual Romantic Evening.

How To Have Lots of Guys Chasing You

Would you like to know how to have lots of men chasing you? If you are single, do you know the secrets of being irresistibly attractive? Would you like to have your choice of many great men so you can have the relationship of your dreams?
In truth, it isn't the wisest move for a woman to "wait" for a guy to "find" her. Finding each other needs to be a mutual choice. Both parties should take responsibility for whom they select to be with.

Chase does not mean stalking, seeking someone only for sex, or playing games to get your attention in order to exercise control over you. "Chase" in this article means:

*Madly attracted
*Vulnerable to you
*Seeking intimacy AND a lasting relationship
*Adores you
*Admires, respects, and could easily fall in love with you.

Being "chased" assumes that you will go places, be friendly, meet people, and reach out to others. If you keep yourself a secret, no one can find you and chase you.
If you want to have multiple choices of great guys who want to be with you, pay attention to the following known reasons that guys "chase" women...and fall in love with them.

* Your appearance
It needs to be polished and as attractive as possible without your obsessing about how you look all the time. Girls who sell themselves on looks alone always come up bankrupt. Appearance is important but it is just the beginning. Further...you do have control over how good you look.
Colors, clothes, hairstyle, and makeup are all under your control. You can get yourself to the gym and workout every day to have the best healthy body you are capable of. Whiten your teeth, get cosmetic dentistry if you need it or can afford it, and stand up straight. Poor posture is a major turnoff.
Finally, when you have done your best to look your best, shift your interest to other people, your work, or your other passions.

* Be friendly and talk to people.
Guys are attracted to women who pay attention to them, listen, and give appropriate compliments. Hold off on sharing the traumatic moments of your life--no one wants to hear those too soon. Get a counselor if you find that you must talk about them. Humor goes a long way. But keep it light and friendly--no put down, sarcastic, or bitter remarks. Those are not attractive.

* Depth
What attracts and holds a guy forever? Your level of committment to your work or your studies, your compassion for other people, and your dedication to a cherished cause. Loyalty, sensitivity, spirituality, and concerns about more than just the material life is very attractive.

* Confidence
This is the quality everyone says they need more of. How do you develop confidence? By doing things that make you feel proud of yourself. We're not talking about arrogance or feeling better than other people. Just quietly knowing that you have done a good job; that you have done the right thing even if it didn't matter; and that you are on purpose with your goals and values.

Develop and work on the above qualities and notice the line of guys forming who want to meet you, know you, and date you.

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Tips for Married Couples

There are many ways of showing love. Love and romance means much to a lot of people, but unfortunately many couples whether married or not are not pleased with this part of their relationship. In this specific area a marriage enrichment is often needed, especially for couples who have been married for some years. Although hearing the words, “I love you” is special and important, sometimes you wish you could tell your mate as well as hear from your mate those words, but in a more special and unique way. Here are some ideas of how this can be accomplished:

• Rent his favorite movie, even if it is something you do not like, and plan an evening alone where you can be with him as he enjoys his special treat.


• when she gets out of the shower, hand her a warm, cozy towel just heated in the dryer.
  
• When you make him pancakes, first pour the words, “I Love You” on the griddle and cook for a minute to brown. Then, pour more batter over the words to create a round pancake. The result will be a pancake displaying those three special words when you flip it over.
  
• While he is out of town, wash his car and surprise him by picking him up in a clean, shiny car at the airport.
  
• Take her out to lunch.
  
• Have his favorite breakfast on the table along with the morning newspaper.
  
• Instead of bugging him to go to the grocery store with you, let him stay home.
  
• Display your favorite picture of the two of you on the refrigerator.
  
• Buy her a subscription to his favorite magazine.

Beyond telling your mate that you love them, that they are special, and having passion in your relationship, you should adore your mate and what they bring into the relationship. What this means is, appreciate and love them for the person they are, faults and all. This is true devotion to your mate and it demonstrates that you do not take them for granted.
Go online and find some internet resources regarding relationships and marriage, there are lots of them and many are free as well.

Honey..!! You are the One...

What I have with him is worth it.

It is worth every lonely night, every tear I cry from missing him,

and the pain I feel from not having him close.

It is worth it because he is my one and only.

When I picture myself years from now, I see only him.

No matter how painful distance can be, not having him in my life would be worse.

FIRE WITHIN US......

There is a fire within us..

that only needs a touch to bring forth flame.

Passion ignites...

when I hear you whisper my name.

My body shivers... oh...but not from cold...

but from the sweet anticipation...of a desire

that never seems to grow old.
I lay my head upon your chest..kiss your skin softly.

I breathe in the manly scent of you...it intoxicates me like wine...

making my senses whirl...or maybe it is the way your hands...

are softly caressing my back...making me melt...

yet every nerve is tingling...with the need of you.
You gently lift me up and softly kiss my forehead

Sending chills all down my spine

Can't wait the anticipation...Softly kiss up your body gently caress our lips...

My body fills with excitement and anticipation

Hands roaming each others bodies Filling the silkiness of your skin
My heart starts pounding from pleasure

As your fingers run over my treasures

Gently sliding the key in as you begin to turn

Gently stroking my body OHHHH MY GOD is all I could whisper...

Our passion increases...

Our souls ignited...

You lower down and kiss me passionately and

I know I am in Heaven

For I saw the flames burning in your eyes.

A Letter from an Employee to his Boss...

One day an employee sends a letter to his boss asking for an increase in his salary!!!

Dear Bo$$

In thi$ life, we all need $ome thing mo$t de$perately.

I think you $hould be under$tanding of the need$ of u$ worker$ who have given $o much $upport including $weat and $ervice to your company

I am $ure you will gue$$ what I mean and re$pond $oon

Your$ $incerelyNorman $oh

The next day, the employee received this letter of reply

Dear NOrman

I kNOw you have been working very hard.

NOwadays, NOthing much has changed.

You must have NOticed that our company is NOt doing NOticeably well as yet

NOw the newspaper are saying the world`s leading ecoNOmists

are NOt sure if the United States may go into aNOther recession.

After the NOvember presidential elections things may turn bad

I have NOthing more to add NOw. You kNOw what I mean

Yours trulyManager

MaKe LOvE.......

Oh, come with me

Take me in your arms

Kiss me long and deep

Feel my passion rise
Remove my clothes

Caress my soft skin

With your fingertips

Feel the softness Of my tender breasts

Beneath your hands
Touch them, stroke themSqueeze them, knead them

Cover them with kisses

Close your lips around the nipples

Feel their hardnessWith your tongue
Delve into me

With your hot tongue

Devour me

Taste my essence

As I scream your name...

Make love to me!

ThInGs A sWeEt GuY wOuLd Do ...

1. Know how to make you smile when you are down.

2. Try to secretly smell your hair BUT you always notice.

3. Stick up for you but still be respectful of your independence.

4. Give you the remote control during the game.

5. Come up behind you, put his arms around you, squeeze you tightly against his chest, and whisper softly into your ear

6. Play with your hair.

7. His hands will always find yours.

8. Be cute when he really wants something.

9. Offer you plenty of massages.

10. Dance with you even if he feels like a dork.

11. Never run out of love.

12. Be funny, but knows when to be serious.

13. Realize he's being funny when he needs to be serious.

14......... Be patient when you take forever to get ready.

15. React so cutely when you hit him and it actually hurts.

16. Smile alot.

17. Plan a romantic date full of cheesy things he wouldn't normally do just b/c he knows it means alot to you.

18. Appreciate you.

19. Help others out.

20. Drive 5 hours just to see you for 1.

21......... Always give you a peck on the cheek when you depart from each other's company- even when friends are watching.

22. Sing even if he can't

23. Have a creative sense of humor.

24. Stare at you.

25. Call for no reason

26. Quit smoking, chewing, drinking, or drugs just b/c he loves you enough to quit!!